“Why do we even need feminism?”
There’s only one way to answer a question like that.
We need feminism because the bra strap of a 13 year-old
makes her 45 year old maths teacher uncomfortable. We need feminism because
when my 7 year old cousin came home with a black eye, the school excused it by
saying “boys will be boys”. We need feminism because there are countries where
young girls are mutilated for the crime of being born a woman. We need feminism
because women are still objectified by men and treated as prizes in order to
demonstrate dominance. We need feminism because people still believe that a
woman’s appearance is more important than any other of her qualities. We need
feminism because young girls are shot for trying to obtain an education. We
need feminism because trans-women are still being told that they aren't “really
women”. We need feminism because the most offensive thing you could tell a
child is that they are “like a girl”. We need feminism because gender roles are
still forced upon us. We need feminism because every day young girls are being
married to men three times their age. We need feminism because girls are
constantly forced into competition with one another. We need feminism because
young girls are still being solved into the sex and slavery trade. We need
feminism because women are judged for the same activities that men are praised
for.
I am aware of how privileged I am. I am a white, cis-gendered;
heterosexual from a middle class background in a first world country- I am
extremely lucky. I have never been abused for my skin colour, or the people I
love- I have never gone hungry- I have never been threatened by societies
expectations of me. However I am a woman, which means that I am at a
disadvantage in the world’s patriarchal society. However because of all of the
other attributes I have on my side, I am not faced with the worse end of the
bargain and because of these advantages in the first world many other people
are convinced that “we don’t need feminism”. And to some extent they’re right,
in the society I live in I am not worse off- I can get an education, I am not
forced into marrying an older man and I am not threatened with FGM daily.
However there are women who are threatened with these
things. There are women who are killed for defending their basic rights as human
beings. There are trans-gendered women who can’t even use the bathroom
designated to women. Girls are turned into sex objects and forced into
industries that promote their sexualisation. But these women don’t have a
position to voice their problems; they aren't at as high an advantage as women
like myself and many of you. Why would you waste that advantage by not fighting
for you fellow females and their rights to the benefits that we have? These
women don’t have the platform that we have. By fighting the problems we are
faced with like the objectification, health and rape of women we are able to
slowly raise awareness to the sexism of our society and the patriarchy we live
under and once that has been accomplished we can apply this on a much wider,
more revolutionary way. We need to fix the immediate problems in order to gain
the power to fix the global problem.
We must follow in the footsteps of Maya Angelou, of Virginia
Woolf, of Malala Yousafzai. These incredible women have given us a spark, a
starting point, a platform for change and now we must use it.
Brilliantly said x
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